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(Note: The higher the score, the more likely he is losing interest in your relationship.)

So... Is He Losing Interest?  Possibly, But Could Go Either Way... Before It’s Too Late, Consider This:

Have you been ignoring your own feelings?

If you are confused about a guy who used to be interested, gave you all the signs he was, including doing romantic little things and overall treating you the way you always wanted to be treated… you have to realize that there’s a lot to be said for the dynamic and nature of relationships changing over time. 

When a man first gets into a relationship dynamic, he will do things to “woo” you that won’t continue throughout the relationship as it changes.  However, the common trap women in this score range fall into is staying with a man who gives the indication that there will be a future and because the future is so enticing, the current dissatisfaction is ignored…

If you stay with your man, you have to accept the way things are right now.  If you don’t like the way things are right now, you might want to re-evaluate whether you were ever a truly good match after all. 

First, think about if it’s really a placeholder relationship. 

For insight into the placeholder relationship and what it means about your guy and what he wants read about it here: http://www.anewmode.com/dating-relationships/my-ex-back/

Nothing to fear but fear itself...

Stop before you sabotage this once and for all.  At this point, you’re in a state where you might have mixed feelings that you don’t really know what to make of. 

Maybe he used to be romantic and he isn’t doing the little things you loved anymore. 

Maybe he stopped texting you to say he misses you. 

Maybe the way he used to be isn’t how he is and he seems emotionally distant. 

Maybe he spends more time with his friends than with you. 

The list could go on, but the bottom line is if you focus on the negative, you see the negative. The reality is it’s just as possible that he is more comfortable with your dynamic. He isn’t trying to “win” you anymore, which is why his behavior has changed. 

The most likely scenario (or at least one you should consider before jumping to the conclusion it’s something you did wrong that’s making him lose interest) issomething is happening in his life that he’s dealing with so his behavior, as a result of his situation, has changed. 

The trick here is to not take it personally. If you take things personally or feed into constant worrying about the relationship, your mood will suffer. As a result, instead of interacting with him from a place of happy, fun, carefree energy, your interactions will have an unpleasant, sad or confrontational energy to them, which will cause him to lose interest and pull away. From the outside, it will look like you confirmed your suspicions when, in truth, his withdrawing was caused by your negative mood (which was caused by your worries in the first place).

Long story short: focus on the positive and stop feeding into the worrying and you'll avoid creating a problem in the first place.

It's Not You, It's Him...

There are a number of things he could be dealing with that would be areas to think about before you think he’s losing interest in you. 

You have to keep in mind that men deal with problems in their own way by themselves.  The last thing a man wants is to feel pitied. 

I’m not saying you’re trying to make him uncomfortable, but if he’s going through a hard time, pressing him to talk about things will make him feel uneasy. 

The reality is guys need to feel like winners in the world. If you inspire him to win in the world, you will be the woman he can’t imagine not having in his life.  If you feel like he might be dealing with his own stress or a difficult situation, focus on seeing him as the man who is a "winner in the world" rather than worrying about if he’s losing interest.

Your positive focus will shift the tone of your interactions, which will shift how he interacts with you in a positive direction. This may take practice and patience, but this is the most effective approach to shifting your relationship back into a positive place if he's been distant lately.

Read these articles to understand why it might have nothing to do with you and everything to do with his life. 

7 Secrets To Make A Man Love You - This video exposes the most common mistakes you might be making that stop a man's love dead in its tracks... and what to do about it. It is highly recommended you watch that video now.

Article: How Do I Get My Boyfriend to Be More Romantic?http://www.anewmode.com/dating-relationships/boyfriend-more-romantic/

Article: My Boyfriend Is Stressed and Pulling Away-http://www.anewmode.com/dating-relationships/guy-boyfriend-stressed-pulling/

Article: Why Guys Withdraw- http://www.anewmode.com/dating-relationships/when-a-guy-withdraws/